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Gerard Butler Dresses as Mad Hatter for Halloween!

Gerard Butler Dresses as Mad Hatter for Halloween!

Gerard Butler got into the Halloween spirit last night!

The 47-year-old actor dressed as the Mad Hatter from Alice in Wonderland while attending the treats! magazine annual Steve Shaw-hosted trick or treats! Halloween Party with a “The Spirit of Ecstasy” theme on Tuesday (October 31) in Los Angeles.

Also in attendance were Paris Hilton as a bunny with her boyfriend Chris Zylka as an emoji, Diplo as a skeleton, and Josh Hutcherson, also as a skeleton.

FYI: The party was done in conjunction with Rolls-Royce Black Badge, Absolut Elyx, and Perrier Jouet.

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  • Koos

    he was born as a joke?

  • Guest

    Crawl back under your stone.

  • 🌻JustJenny🌻

    I wouldn’t mind futterwacking with this guy! 🎃

  • Julia

    A relationship with a Narcissist has been compared to being on a roller coaster, with immense highs and immense lows. They have been described as the proverbial Jekyll and Hyde, one way one minute, another the next.
    People usually get into relationships for love and the need to connect and bond with another. Narcissists get into relationships for entirely different reasons. They do not feel love and they lack the ability to connect and form normal attachment bonds with others.
    Narcissists need people more than anyone. Because their entire sense of self-esteem and self-worth is dependent on the admiration of others, their emotions are a precarious balance of needing others and needing to be left alone.

    Narcissists feel an enormous void inside of them. This void is ever present and the only thing that fills it, is the love and esteem of another. The fix is always temporary though. A Narcissist describes it this way, “It’s like my brain is constantly seeking something. It’s like I’m always chasing a carrot at the end of a stick. Nothing I do satisfies me, at least not for long. I feel like I only do things because I’m supposed to, because society does it. I don’t feel like I belong anywhere or with anyone.”

    Narcissists are completely self-absorbed and are oblivious to the wants and needs of others. They enter into relationships in an attempt to fill this void and to make sure that they have someone who is always available for sex, an ego stroke or whatever need they may have. A relationship with a Narcissist always follows three phases, the over-evaluations phase, the devaluation phase and the discard phase.

    The Over-evaluation Phase
    A Narcissist is very careful when choosing a target. Typically, they will choose a victim based on their status. They must be attractive, popular, rich or extremely gifted in some area. The greater the status, the higher the value the Narcissist places on the Supply derived.

    Once a target has been chosen, it’s almost like the Narcissist gets tunnel vision. They are hyper-vigilant in their pursuit and will project the perfect image that their victim wants them to be. They are excessively caring, loving and attentive at this stage. They shower their targets with attention, compliments and literally sweep them off their feet.

    They place their target on a pedestal, idolize and worship them. Their target is the greatest thing since sliced bread. Here the Narcissist is ecstatic, full of hopes and dreams. They will talk and think about them constantly, they are euphoric. This is as close as a Narcissist will ever get to feeling love. This kind of idolization is what others would call infatuation.

    The victim is likely so caught up in all the attention and is usually thinking at this point, that they have found their soul-mate. Their pursuer is exactly what they want in a partner (because the Narcissist is mirroring what they have learned appeals to their target) and they can’t believe how lucky they are and that this catch is still single.

    What they don’t know, or could ever be prepared for, is what comes next.

    The Devaluation Stage

    The Over-Evaluation phase, if you’re dealing with a Somatic Narcissist, usually lasts anywhere from a few weeks to a couple of months, just long enough for the Narcissist to be confident that they have secured their target’s love and devotion. Unbeknownst to the target, what they were witnessing in the early phase was the Narcissist’s false self. In this second phase, the mask comes off and the Narcissist starts to reveal their true colours.

    The shift could be gradual or almost seemingly overnight. Suddenly the attention they so lavishly gave you is gone and replace by indifference and silence. Days or weeks could go by and you won’t hear from them. They don’t return your phone calls, they don’t keep a single promise and you’re starting to suspect that they might be involved with someone else. The target is left baffled and confused and wondering what they did wrong to cause such an abrupt turnaround.

    Narcissists become bored easily and what usually starts happening in their heads at this stage, is that the void begins to emerge again. The high they were feeding off of is waning and they begin to question your worthiness, that perhaps you weren’t so special after all, because if you were then the void wouldn’t still be there.

    They become moody and agitated easily, blaming you for even the slightest transgression. They start to disappear more frequently and they give you the silent treatment in an attempt to create distance. As the Narcissist withdraws, the target starts to cling and your demands for his attention and your need to understand what’s happening, grate on his nerves. The harder you cling the more the Narcissist pulls away. They start to blame and criticize the target for everything, treating them like an emotional punching bag.

    At this point the target is an emotional wreck. The Narcissist has left without any explanation and they can’t figure out how one minute they were put on a pedestal and now it’s like they doesn’t even exist. The Narcissist is a projector and they are projecting their emotional turmoil onto you. They feed off of other people’s misery (as long as it’s caused by them) just as much as they feeds off of your admiration, either way it makes no difference to them.

    It is this person, this cruel, indifferent, unfeeling, sadist that is the behind the mask. Most targets desperately try to find the one they fell in love with. What they don’t realize is that that person never existed. They were a facade an act put on by the Narcissist to secure their Supply.

    The Narcissist will take no responsibility for their actions, because they simply don’t care how they’ve treated you or how you are feeling.

    Narcissists are not capable of forming normal healthy attachments to people. Those that aren’t familiar with the disorder are completely at a loss to understand how unnecessarily cruel their behavior can be. The target was never more than an object to the Narcissist, whose usefulness is on the decline.

    The Narcissist isn’t one to throw away a potential piece of supply though. They will keep up this I love you, I love you not charade going for as long as it suits them or as long as you allow it. They will breeze in and out of your life as if nothing ever happened, completely oblivious and indifferent to your suffering.

    This mind fuck is deliberate and they will keep feeding you crumbs of attention, just enough to keep you emotionally invested and available to cater to their every need.

    At some point one of two things will happen: either they will find a new target and begin phase one with them, thus ignoring you completely, or you will have had enough of his psychotic abuse and you will take control and put an end to it, thus ushering In phase three.

    The Discard Phase
    It is almost baffling to watch the ease at which a Narcissist can pull away from his partners. Many targets are left asking themselves, “Did he ever love me? Did I mean anything to him?” The simple answer is no. No one means anything to him. Women are only a means to an end – to obtain the much needed Narcissistic Supply. Once your usefulness has run its course, you will be discarded abruptly and cruelly, without warning.

    Trying to get over a relationship with a Narcissist is extremely difficult. Once it is over the target is usually an emotional wreck, whose self-esteem has been annihilated by the persistent demeaning behavior, insults and cruelty of the Narcissist. Depending on when they were able to break free, the target maybe a shadow of their former self, with a lot of work ahead of them to rebuild their shattered self-image.

    As a victim tries to pick up the pieces, What must be remembered is that you were deliberately targeted, lied to and manipulated by a skilled con-artist, for their own gain. There was nothing you could have done differently and none of this was your fault. The Narcissist will repeat this pattern with every person, every time, bar none.

    All former targets must be vigilantly on guard, because a Narcissist always reserves the right to revisit a former source of supply, no matter how much time has passed or how badly they’ve behaved.

    Once you have broken free you must close the door on any and all contact, because if you don’t you’re headed back to a watered down version of Phase One – over and over and over again.
    https://esteemology.com/the-three-phases-of-a-narcissistic-relationship-cycle-over-evaluation-devaluation-discard/

  • Pamela

    Hi Michael.

  • Julia

    Hi Pam. Btw, yours was the best comment of the day.
    “Yes, but when you are with the one you really love, it’s easy for 2 grown ass adults to be in love and be together.”

  • Pamela

    I suppose I am the narcissist, right?

  • Julia

    Nope

  • Pamela

    You sure? Cause I am sure I am doing something wrong in all this.

  • Julia

    Positive.
    “This above all: to thine own self be true,
    And it must follow, as the night the day,
    Thou canst not then be false to any man.”

  • Pamela

    Ok.

  • AbbyRichter

    Are you talking about yourself?….Or?

  • Pamela

    A grown ass adult doesn’t give their self worth away in a relationship.

  • Pamela

    :)

  • Pamela

    I don’t think Julia was naming anyone in particular.

    but if the shoe fits.

  • LuvsDaBoy

    Thank you, Julia. Most interesting article. I wish you had posted the Link. How much is narcissist, Scorpio, coddled spoiled baby of a family with issues, how much is organic, how much is environment? In truth, I honestly believe there is much more at work than this article suggests. Gerard has acknowledged that he has seen psychiatrists since he was a teen-ager. He knows all too well his “issues”, and far, Far beyond smoking and pain killers. He is tormented. Narcissists blame others for that “void”. Imo, Gerard blames himself. He has a hideous self-image. It is not “humility”, or “self-deprication”. I think I understand where it comes from in him. My life has been about children of abuse. He presents ALL the classic symptoms. That is why I am here. Don’t worry about the others on this site. They are phannies and much worse. I do not feel much in the way of great sympathy for Morgan. Yes, she got tossed about a bit, but anyone could have seen from the get-go this had nothing to do with Love. She had her own issues, and her own agenda. She milked it for all she could, just like MG, and probably most of the others. JC is the one I fault here. He is, Imo, a very dangerous quack. These sychophants and enablers, I speak of constantly, obviously feed Gerard’s “issues”, they gain their own sense of self-power through manipulating Gerard. The blind leading the blind, only they are dangerous, and he is needy. I have always thought Freud would have a hayday with our fair Mr. Butler. He is in the best and worst possible career and lifestyle for someone with his issues. I feel like he accepts no sense of real pleasure or real happiness anymore. Actually, I find that very encouraging. Very encouraging indeed. There is, after all, real Hope for the Boy.

  • lamcha

    Any sign of Dracula’s daughter at the party?

  • Yeah Right

    Great description of Morgan. Good job Julia. You nailed her.

  • Nicole

    Thank you, Julia. Very interesting article.

  • Pamela

    Shaking my head.
    Pray tell, what fantasies do I have?

    Yeah, you got me. I am wanting to marry Gerry or Michael… oh no wait, give me HARVEY! I can change him for the better. *eyeroll*

  • Sonia
  • GFW

    Wow, so subdued and adult.

  • Yeah Right

    Good interview. Thanks Sonia!

  • Sonia
  • Time to ask…

    Interesting Julia. That type of person will always be empty. Those who follow behaviors with that kind of pattern will never be happy, and soon find themselves seeing their own reflection on another who will be doing the same to them. It’s the way life works, it’s karma, as if written, never fails.

  • Time to ask…

    “That is why I am here. Don’t worry about the others on this site. They are phannies and much worse.”

    Unbelievable! You are a dangerous fanny yourself.
    You’re practically saying that Gerry could be that type of person, yet you’re blaming Morgan for being the victim. That is absurd!
    If and only if that were true, then Gerry should have consciously stayed away from every woman, as he has done with the alcohol. Anyone who recognizes the problem and doesn’t stay away is guilty and should feel as such. They should continue to get help until they can safely enter into a relationship without the need to play and hurt more people.

  • Brad King

    Looks like he’s lost the weight again.

  • Brad King

    I just wish they had subtitled what the interviewer was asking him.

  • Brad King

    If you mean who I think you do, if she had been there she would have made her presence known. She’s not camera shy and would want the world to know she was there. She would want to show off her costume, especially if it was as tasteless and tacky as previous years.

  • Sonia

    Good times tonight!!! 🔥😎🔥bunker77film premier w/ gerardbutler Heavy flick! Great film… instagram.com/p/Ba-98hDDt3q/
    https://twitter.com/christianhosoi/status/925982504913375232

  • Nicole
  • LuvsDaBoy

    I have never heard him speak of Brian directly, in any interview. I have never heard anything about Brian being the one to get in trouble when they were young. And Gerard had to settle him down? Really? He seemed sincere while he talked about it in this interview, but I do not believe him. In the many family photos I have seen of them, the body language, the Everything about Brian, even as a very young boy, completely refutes this assertion of Gerard.Everything about Brian’s life now, from his family to his jobs speaks volumes of the man.
    If he did just have a wild phase, like most healthy kids, especially from a discordant home, he outgrew it very long ago, and has been the one closest to Gerard, by Gerard’s own statements.
    Imo, this is his weirdness talking, wishful thinking, maybe, but for him to also refer to Dean Devlin as a “master film-maker”, and he would “do the film again”, proves he is in PR/BS mode.
    And I know, directly from someone within that production, who was on-set with Gerard in New Orleans, that his statements about what went on are flat out LIES. The week before MB showed up, Gerard had become “unmanageable”, and had even gotten into a physical altercation on set. (Not his first time doing so on a set either.) MB was brought in to calm him down. The same as the sudden trip to Mexico during DOT. You may recall the outing at the Saints game. Word had already leaked out about the incident and troubles on set, and this was damage control. There were even Tweets from Devlin that came out after saying how wonderful it was to work with Gerard. PR/BS. I trust this source, after very many years. I know several people who have known Gerard, professionally, and personally, and not from a few moments at a phannies convention, or from years on phan sites, or seconds with him getting a selfie. My comments here are based on my several friends close personal interactions with, and observations of the man, as well as Gerard’s own statements, and actions.

  • LuvsDaBoy

    I am not a fan, so I certainly am not a phannie. I am only dangerous to the lies, the mis-information, the toxic waste fans, and the PR/BS. I am not an enabler, nor a sycophant. I feel absolutely no need to defend my posting here, nor justify it. It is no one’s business “why” anyone posts here.
    I am absolutely agreeing with Julia, that in my experience with similar people, Gerard exhibits much but not all this article suggests. I place responsibility with Morgan, for knowingly participating in the relationship, for her own ends, knowing full well it was not a “Love” relationship. Not victimhood.
    He in fact has turned to “professional help” repeatedly. Unfortunately, Imo, he turns only to those who enable his issues further, like the truly “dangerous” “nutritionist” who not only gave him the over dose of bee venom, but left the supply with Gerard, so he could do it himself later. He also had a Dr., during #300, give him, purposely, a similar over dose. And said so to Michael Strahan on live TV. Gerard has long history of this sort of thing. Imo, the single most “dangerous” of these “professionals”, has been JC, and JC’s entire entourage. “Dangerous”, being a gross understatement.

  • 💕👰💫german-girl💃fresh-blood💫👰💕

    i`d love to have his conditions > partying all night and next day looking good at a premier……:)

  • 💕👰💫german-girl💃fresh-blood💫👰💕

    “Gerrylicious”
    < yeah, THAT`s right :)

  • Sonia
  • Sprite

    Gerard has good taste !
    @Madmotorman:disqus

  • Yeah Right

    Thanks Sonia! He looks great.

  • Yeah Right

    Yes, that would have been nice.

  • Ashton

    Thanks Sonia, what a good interview, they are the typical Scottish lads, always enjoyed hearing these stories 😄

  • Guest

    What a load of sh it

  • GFW

    Both are armed and overwhelmed by rage. Like the turncoat. And both are parents? You can ‘kill’ a child with neglect like you can with ‘kill’ with disappointment. They’ve developed motives that make sense to them to treat him like this, their object of disaffection. Cruel.

  • LuvsDaBoy

    Sorry to disappoint you, but every word is TRUE.

  • GFW

    He’s never done anything to you. Or Julia.
    It’s not like he abandoned you. Left you.
    But I put it down to bad manners and lack of boundaries.
    There’s a time and place for everything.
    This is not that.